Martial Arts Training
Learn Why Your Level Of Self Confidence is Invisibly Controling Your Destiny & Could be
HARMING you without you noticing it...
Dearest Friends & Proteges,
Self Confidence is Faith in what is Unique about
I am not talking about personality or persona - those are things you create, not
the difference that you were born with.
Self Confidence is the Rock Solid persuasion that you can achieve the
goals you have established.
The RESULTS of Self Confidence is an aura of Enthusiasm, hope and expectation in
your inner man as well as your environment.
Self Confidence inspires others around you & causes doubt in your
It also attracts the RIGHT people, and decides every success.
Self Confidence frequently starts as a tiny spark to reach and become more than
you are in your present.
Self Confidence is VITAL to achieving your Dreams, reaching your
potential and living a life that worth living.
3 Golden Keys to Develop Your Self
1. Recognize that Self Doubt Creates Tragedies and Loss.
Everyone has doubts.
But understand that doubt is the specter that provides the resistance needed to
become Self Confident.
We get into trouble when we accept these thoughts of doubt as
truth, which they are not. We do not have to accept every thought as truth.
Oftentimes these Doubts are based on past experiences or what others have said to
you about you.
But you are NOT your PAST. Nor are you what others say about you.
So here is the ACTION ITEM: When you recognize a thought of
Doubt. Simply DOUBT YOUR DOUBTS. When I get a thought of doubt I simply say " I Doubt that's True!".
My Mind says: " You will never_____________"
I say: " I doubt that's true"
2. Identify your Unique Gifts, talents and skills.
Everyone has been born with special inherit qualities.
These things are hidden from years of persuasion from bad experiences and what
other negative people with no Self Confidence have said to you and about you.
YOU MUST DISCOVER YOUR UNIQUENESS!
That's why I love Martial Arts training and think its one of the best
Vehicles of personal development.
Martial Arts provides a unique
challenge that is as old as mankind itself & forces one to SEE and DISCOVER what are the strengths you have
been born with.
Once your STRENGTHS have been uncovered something almost magical happens - you
become more Self Confident!
That Self Confidence Allow you to look at your
weaknesses and challenge them as well, which breeds more self confidence.
The Challenges you face through martial arts training is a
discovery process and this path also births the guard against conceit or False Confidence - HUMILITY.
When Self Confidence is working in harmony with Humility it become your
Unstoppable force to achieving your DREAMS & Reaching your POTENTIAL.
Use your martial arts training to discover unique aspects inside you that you
never knew where there. I cannot stress how POWERFUL this is.
3. Strive for Mastery in Something today.
In our culture, mediocrity is accepted and often encouraged.
Just look at what entertains us on TV.
It may make us laugh, but were crying inside.
We want to be inspired. Everything in us wants to see someone overcome obstacles
and REACH their potential. We all love to hear a HEROS story!
But, we have forgotten that when we discover our skills, gifts and talents
through the path of mastery over something our Self Confidence emerges.
If we never cultivate our gifts, talents and skills we have nothing to be
Sadly, our culture has now become complacent in starting something and quitting
many different things which breeds NO Confidence.
And worse yet, instead of seeking MASTERY we seek MATERIALISM to
compensate for what we have not developed through diligence in hope that what we HAVE will make us feel
Unfortunately, this does not help us to discover the unique GIFTS that the
creator endows each one of us with.
Especially, when we can just buy something that makes us feel good about
ourselves. This does not lead to Self Confidence but only to Self Conceit, which is unattractive and
That's why I have always believed that Martial Arts classes and training is one of the most suitable
paths for these discoveries.
Because Martial Arts provides the challenges needed for these qualities to appear
and also because there is not a one just one quality that determines being a master of the martial arts.
In fact, it seems that almost any unique gift,talent or skill can be amplified in
martial arts classes that can be used as the seed toward Martial Arts Mastery and developing a healthy Self
But, on the path toward Martial Arts Mastery things like Goal Setting, Focus and
Self Discipline will always be cultivated and the student is almost forced to master these key success
ingredients in order to progress...when Goal Setting, Focus and Self Discipline develop in the student training
Martial Arts classes Self Confidence grows by default as a reward for the time put in.
I would also say that Martial Arts is one of the only paths that develop a
holistic benefit for the Body, Mind and Spirit. Not all Sports and activities can say that.
One more important aspect of training at a Martial Arts School is that because it
impossible to Master martial arts through a book, a student needs to learn it from a teacher and this breeds
HUMILTY (knowing what you don't have).
Martial Arts also breeds respect when a student comes to see that although many
students can be taught the same technique, all will perform it differently dependent upon their
We learn to RESPECT other peoples uniqueness.
The last thing that I want to mention is, because everyone on the path to
mastering the martial arts also must put in much time it develops persistence and patience.
There is no shortcut for even the most gifted. This is very valueable and will
make you stand out in the sea of people that regularly quit and accept mediocratiy.
Self Confidence is not something that you produce out of thin
It is developed through discovery using a vehicle like martial arts training that
provides a challenge.
REWARDS of Self Confidence.
Your Self Confidence is a understanding of WHO you are and BECOMING.
This gives you a remarkable edge in overcoming adversity, reaching for goals and
In fact, your level of Self Confidence has been steering your decisions
in the background at all times.
It affects your relationships, your level of success and your willingness to
tackle the obstacles that you are facing.
Develop a healthy Self Confidence by implementing these 3 Golden Keys
You will start feeling alive and sense of happiness in your discovery of your
potential of what you were born to become.
In your corner,